Our anger… it can undermine our best efforts at home and at work. It can cause distance
and damage positive connections in our relationships. It rarely provides a long-term solution to any problem.
In many ways, the anger-response is a hold-over from a more primitive time; a time when it enabled us to survive
attack. For better, or worse our brain doesn’t really “see” the difference between an
emotional threat (our spouse, child, or boss coming to/at us with complaints, or criticism) and a physical threat (the guy
in the dark alley).
Anger-mismanagement
brings many clients to my door. In the course of my clinical experience and training, I’ve developed
a treatment approach that addresses the need to manage and express feeling more effectively, as well as the underlying issues
that feed the anger-response.
In the course of our work,
I’ll help you:
- Identify
triggers for your anger.
- Break down your anger-response into it’s
parts:
- The physiological.
- The
emotional.
- The cognitive (thoughts and self-talk).
- The
behavioral (what you say and do).
- Explore relationship enhancing
alternatives.
- Determine and address the underlying causes.
- The genetic (inherited traits).
- The
environmental (childhood experience).
In a nutshell, our work can
be about improving your relational quality of life at work, in your marriage and with your children.
Please feel free to contact me with your questions.